I have always been the girl that my friends come to for advice. As time passed, that advice seemed to become questions surrounding love, sex and relationships, and I would tell them truth. I would say something to them like, you know the truth, you just choose not to accept it. That guy that you've been texting nonstop with no response...NOT INTERESTED. The guy who you sleep with on the first night only to give you a noncommittal answer when you ask to see him again..YOU PROBABLY WON'T. Been involved with a guy for months and he doesn't call you his girlfriend...BECAUSE YOU AREN'T. You gave a guy all these criteria that you look for on the first date and wonder if/why he suddenly lost interest...HE DID. Some people say you have to qualify a guy from top to bottom, play the neurotic head games, etc..but in most cases it's just not that complicated. Some cases are more intricate and complicated, and those will be addressed too. Regardless of the situation, it all starts the same..by you admitting the truth to yourself...HE'S NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND.
But one day, armed with the right perspective and attitude, he could be.
Enjoy the journey friends, and be sure to comment, share, subscribe, etc.
Ashley Robin
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